Okay y'all I need to get this off my mind. I was on facebook today and I seen some shit that pissed me the fuck off!
Someone on my timeline made a comment say's ( don't be mad at the side chick, because she doing what you can't for your man. If you was taking care of home, he wouldn't be going to her) or some bullshit like that. It made me some damn mad! First off understand if you are or have been a (side chick) and you had zero idea that was the roll you had been given.... no one can be mad at you. Someone made you believe that you was #1 and you just went with that... but on the other hand! If you KNOW that he/she has a relationship with someone else and you are okay with playing the roll of boyfriend/girlfriend #2 fuck you two times over.
You get no damn respect from me and never will. You come up with some bullshit reasons, why it is okay to be doing what it is you are doing. ' oh if she was taking care of home, he wouldn't come to me'.. Well that's bullshit! That dude isn't all that happy with your ass, because he goes back home to his wife.
'They help me pay my bill's, they help take care of me' No shit! They helping your dumb ass, they need you to be quite Rolf. They not about to let you fuck up home.
'They going to be with me as soon, as they get out of that relationship.' Wrong! They never walk away from home boo! And guess what if they do, the same way you got them is going to be the same way you will lose them. No need to say more.
'I don't know their boyfriend/girlfriend, or husband/wife so it don't matter to me.' How fucked up are you? You are willing to hurt someone you do not know. That's how people get fucking killed now a days. And to top that if it's children apart of this, you are hurting them even more. 'Well I just don't care.' Yeah we all see that! But you mad when someone does the something to you.
'I have been hurt before and I just want to be loved. ' Umm okay, here is a newsflash! THEY DON'T LOVE YOUR ASS! !!!! That person is giving you part's of them not all of them. Someone is giving crumbs of their love and you are okay with that? That says alot about how you feel about yourself.
I could go on forever about this but I am not even going to do it. Just understand karma is so real. And that shit always comes back around on you. Most of the time the side chick or dude withh fall in love and they always do.. and once they do that person fucks them over
