Would You Marry Yourself ?

Would you marry you if someone put your life on paper, and looked at all your good and bad, would you say "yea I would marry, that person on this paper". Taking the time, to look at yourself and saying "what is it about me, that's attracting the wrong type of people." Maybe it's the things you say, or the friends you keep around you. Or maybe it's a little bit of everything. No matter what it is, you have to find out and work on it.

Now I know a lot of people will read this and say ' Well I know it's nothing wrong with me, or I did nothing wrong in my relationships.. it was the other person that messed up." If you are one of them people. Let me tell you now, your wrong. Everyone has done something wrong in every relationship. Even if you think you, what you were doing was the best thing for the relationship. I.e: Not being yourself to make someone happy. Or Letting someone walk all over you. Two really big thing's that a lot of us do. For the record change is good, when it's for the best and both people, are working on this change.

However it isn't all that great, when you are walking that walk along and the only person, happy with this change is your partner. It's important to take a close look at yourself, before talking or thinking about marriage. If you don't love you, and your unhappy with yourself, people pick up on that. And people who get off to using others, start to become your lifestyle. Having that happen, is nothing but bad. Mostly in your romantic relationship, because the men or women who pick up on your negativity will get close, just to learn you wickedness and then use it to run your life. Knowing all of that I pose the question 'Would I Marry Me?' Knowing that you, may have an negative outlook on life and men or women.  Being a person who doesn't love themselves and will not let the right people love you... 'Would You Marry Yourself?'

What if you have no idea who you are,or where you stand in life. Or you are just flat out down on yourself. Now without you knowing it, someone wrote down all of your good qualitys and all of your bad ones. And your bad over powered your good. Would take the next step, with the person you just read about. Or would you think 'Hell No'.

Being real with yourself, would you marry you? And if not why would anyone else?

' Who Needs A Degree When You Schooling life'

How many times

This is for the women, who have been played with, lied too, cheated on, and just flat out let down. Before I got with Mr.Reid, I had been in what I like to call 'The No-No' relationship. And a No-No relationship is where, you're so in love, that you are foolish enough to let that person, do and say what ever it is they want too. You want space 'okay'.... you still want to have sex 'okay' ... You want to see other people 'okay'. And I can't put it all on the other person, why? Because I let it all happen, and I would act as if everything was okay. When it really wasn't. I lost myself in that relationship. But this song helped me to see, I didn't need to deal with that mess. I hope this song helps, someone else.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=211XZr_0x_s&feature=youtube_gdata_player

So In Love

This is a note just because. We have been walking in a storm for sometime now, and we have been passing every test that has came our way. We are working to make life better, and working to make our marriage stronger. I know that we are not going get things right over night. And I am here to work and fight for us to make it. This note is to show you that your important to me. And I can't promise that I won't have off days. But I will promise, to be the best wife I can,and to be more open with you... I love you and I can't see myself without you.

Divorce and Life After.

Well I want to start off by saying, No Mr.Reid and I are not getting divorced... I am talking about this because a lot of people seem to be giving up on love and marriage.
Now a days it seems like couples that are married or getting married, can't seem to make it to the golden years. They say that 60%-70% of marriages end in divorce. And most of them end because of money, kids, and cheating. 

Like all relationship's married couples have problems, and have to work them out. My thoughts on divorce are 50/50, part of me can understand,getting a divorce and the other half of me not so much. 
When you are in a marriage, that is troubled and you feel your life falling apart and, both people try to make it work. Both of them fight and give 1,000% to fix whatever that's wrong, but for some reason things don't seem to work ... that to me isn't a failed marriage. Why not?  Well because when two people have done everything in their power to the marriage work, but still couldn't make it. They get the respect from me of ' well you gave it all you could plus some' .

Now if you are someone that runs to divorce hills, every time things become hard....! That to me is a failed marriage. It is like giving up without even trying.

Divorce is a hard thing for anyone, but I believe it is harder for the couples that try to save their marriage. 

This is all my opinion so it's nothing, that I'm saying wrong.

Marrying a man in jail.

I have always wanted to know or understand, the women who marry men that are in jail. Now I can understand if you are Marie's before he goes to jail.... but what about the men that have been locked up for years, and the end up marrying some the have from a pin pal.

My question for today is, would you marry someone that is locked up? Why or why not?

I'm Back

Hey everyone.

I have been gone for a little and I have you been so busy.  But I have some new and great ideas to blog about