Sunday, July 28, 2013

Would You Marry Yourself ?

Would you marry you if someone put your life on paper, and looked at all your good and bad, would you say "yea I would marry, that person on this paper". Taking the time, to look at yourself and saying "what is it about me, that's attracting the wrong type of people." Maybe it's the things you say, or the friends you keep around you. Or maybe it's a little bit of everything. No matter what it is, you have to find out and work on it.

Now I know a lot of people will read this and say ' Well I know it's nothing wrong with me, or I did nothing wrong in my relationships.. it was the other person that messed up." If you are one of them people. Let me tell you now, your wrong. Everyone has done something wrong in every relationship. Even if you think you, what you were doing was the best thing for the relationship. I.e: Not being yourself to make someone happy. Or Letting someone walk all over you. Two really big thing's that a lot of us do. For the record change is good, when it's for the best and both people, are working on this change.

However it isn't all that great, when you are walking that walk along and the only person, happy with this change is your partner. It's important to take a close look at yourself, before talking or thinking about marriage. If you don't love you, and your unhappy with yourself, people pick up on that. And people who get off to using others, start to become your lifestyle. Having that happen, is nothing but bad. Mostly in your romantic relationship, because the men or women who pick up on your negativity will get close, just to learn you wickedness and then use it to run your life. Knowing all of that I pose the question 'Would I Marry Me?' Knowing that you, may have an negative outlook on life and men or women.  Being a person who doesn't love themselves and will not let the right people love you... 'Would You Marry Yourself?'

What if you have no idea who you are,or where you stand in life. Or you are just flat out down on yourself. Now without you knowing it, someone wrote down all of your good qualitys and all of your bad ones. And your bad over powered your good. Would take the next step, with the person you just read about. Or would you think 'Hell No'.

Being real with yourself, would you marry you? And if not why would anyone else?

' Who Needs A Degree When You Schooling life'

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