Okay ladies I felt like I needed to have have a talk with you woman to woman. It makes me so sad to see the women of the world being played out. Not knowing when to walk away from a man who isn't doing anything but bring you down...
We all play the fool and some of us pay for it at the end of the day, some my not be about to trust anymore and some of us end up giving up everything for a man who gives up nothing at all. So I talked to some friends and come up with some ways to tell 'HE JUST ISN'T THAT INTO YOU'.
One way to tell he just isn't into you is (He never calls or text you first) a man who wan't to get to know you will take the time to call or text you at some time in the day, without you having to make the first move. Now I am not saying you get out here and act as if your too good to call or text him because it goes both ways.... but what i am saying is if you are the one who ALWAYS calls or sends the first text, he may not be that into you.
He talks to you about other women he is dating. From what I have seen in life that means a few things, he could be really open and doesn't want to string you along, he is a tool and feels like you should be okay with whatever he puts out there or you have been put in the FRIENDZONE. Now just in case you don't get it, all of this means, he isn't into you. A man you like or are dating should be open with you from the start that he isn't looking for a relationship, but he should never tell you about how good or bad he date was last night or how good or bad the next woman was in bed. If he was into you even after telling you he doesn't want a relationship, he would go out of his way to make you feel as if you were the only girl... and the more you both got to know each other sooner or later you would be.
You never meet the best friend. Meeting the best friend is like the first step to meeting the family. Most people feel like if my best friend likes you than your a keeper, but if you hear about the best friend but never get to meet the best friend, even after months of dating, it is a reason you havn't. It could be that he feels like your not the one or even close to being the one. My bother told me within the first 6 month's to a year most men know if he is going to marry us, he also said within the 2 -4 months he knows if he is going to take you home to meet the family. Now i don't know how true this is but if it is and you have been with your guy for over 4 months and you have not met his family or best friend it maybe time to see where you stand in his life.
If he can't answer anything about you. If you bring him around any of your friends and they start to ask about you and he has no idea what they are talking about, he really isn't into you. Some who cares will take the time to learn thing's about you and get a really good feel for who you are as a person. So let say you have told your boyfriend over 5 times your brithday and still forgets or you tell you you love the color red. but yet he can't seem to get it right. All of that shows he doen't care like you think he does.
It is so much more I could say about this but i believe you get it now. So next time know when it's time to walk away from someone who doesn't feel like you are wroth giving up everything.
Who Needs A Dergee When I'm School'n Life
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