Your Undatable.

 Some people don't seem to understand, other people are always looking at your every move, and when that happens sometimes it can leave a bad taste in their mouth.
 And for most people in the world they don't care how others feel about them. Well i am here to say... You may want to start caring. The way you carry yourself, can make or break your love life. Don't believe me? Well here are some ways to tell why you can't keep a man/woman, and reasons why you maybe looked at as UNDATEABLE..........


             Number One: You fall in love way too fast.
       
             As most people know the base of a any good relationship can be faith, love, trust, honesty and the list can go on. But all of that start's from a friendship. Now no one is saying that you shouldn't get out here in the world and date, but you also don't want to jump into pan that's on fire. An example of falling in love too fast is, You think every man/woman is THE ONE. What is really going on here is, you see one or two good thing's in every person you date, and you take that and run with it. You may even over look the bad thing's in a person just to keep one good thing. Now before you say well "No one is perfect" Well you're right, us as human beings are not made to be perfect. But you shouldn't sell your soul or settle for love. Another way to tell you are falling in love way to fast is after only a few day's you are ready to tell this person you love them. How do you know you love them?  If you know nothing about them.  Yes i know people say "It was love at first sight" and yes i am sure that happens, but more time than not... it's just a strong like for a person, and it is good to know the differnce between the two.


             Number Two:  You give away to much information (T.M.I)
             
          When you first go out on a date with someone, it's okay to tell them some things about yourself (i.e. favorite color, movie, thing to do) but you don't have to tell that person any family drama or baby daddy/ma'ma b.s. "Why not?" you say. You just trying to keep it real and put it all out there on the table.Well for one, your business isn't their business. This person didn't ask you out to hear why you hate your mom or dad or even to know why you can't stand your babies father or mother. Another reason you don't give it all away on the first date is because you really don't this person well enough to give away all of your information. You just give a person 100% of you trust off the back.
One a fisrt date just keep the conversation light.

            Number Three:  Talking about your ex

       Even if your last relationship was 100% good or 1,000% bad you do not keep bring it up. It's okay the first time you bring it up because you are given this person a backround about your life before them, and that story could be the thing to help them understand you better. But once you put it out on the table LET IT BE.
No one want's to keep hearing about how good your last man/woman was or how bad. They really don't want to be compared them. We have all been hurt but that dones't mean you have to keep telling the new person in your life how hurt you still are. Also you don't want to keep bring up how great the last man/woman was. You never want to make the new person in your life feel like they will never be good enough to be with you, and you also never want them to feel like what they do isn't good enough.

          Number Four:  The way you dress (Yes the way you dress)
  
         Yes people the way you dress! The way you dress says a lot about you and who you are. If you go to school and work a great job and is out of this world smart, but yet you dress as if you just walk out of a strip club from a long night of work or like you sell drugs or just got out of jail you my friend are sending mix messages. You see it all of the time people talking about how badly he/she is dressed and just from that alone people form opinion. Your Mr/Mrs Right could have past you up because of the way you dress and you may have done the same because of the way they where dressed.

          Number Five:  Overly sexual conversation

       We all love sex, some more then others, but some of us can over do it. When you are in the stage of a relationship where your just getting to know each other you don't want to come off as this over the top nymphomaniac. Ladies when you are just getting to know a man, you don't to start the conversation telling him how many people you have had sex with, or the many ways you like to be f**ked. One if he was trying to get to know you without making it about sex... that has just gone  out the window. Two, you may not be as good as you think or say you are in the bedroom. The last thing you want do is talk about a lot of mess about how great you are and then when the time comes you are no good or you play a lot of games to get out of it.. Big no no.
  Men don't tell a women about how you can beat the p**sy up or how big you are or anything like that because sooner ot later she will put you to the test, and if you fail that test you will be talked about. People like to talk about sex but if you over do it you become F**KABLE but........  UNDATEABLE.



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