The thing about love is, it starts from within yourself. When you love you it is hard for people to put you down, or make you feel bad about yourself no matter what. But when you become your own downer, everything will get to you and make you feel as if you're not good enough.
Not loving yourself will play out in every relationship you have in life. I know that in life we all are put though a test and some of us come out of it better and other come out beaten. Well the truth is we all come out better, it's some of us haven't found the way to deal with what was given to us.
When you are dating someone and you don't know your own worth you can and will fall for anything. Not because you're dumb, but because it feels good to have someone love and care about you better than you love and care about yourself. Once that happens you don't see the red flags that are being shown to you. Like that man or woman could be a liar or cheating or disrespecting you and all types of ways, all you know or think you know is they love. A person will test you over and over again just to see if they can get away with. And when it is a lack of love for self you will always fail the test.
You have to learn to not let your past over power you future, learn to forgive the people who have done you wrong, and yes I know that is hard to do, but the people you are mad at are going about life just fine and they are sleeping and loving with no problem and hear you are mad all of the time. Always pushing people away who really love you, and falling into a place that is hard to get up from.
Taking time to look yourself in the mirror everyday and tell yourself that you are loved by God and you are loved by your friends and family members and most of all, telling yourself you are loved by you.
If you can do that and believe it, things will start to look a little better day by day. And no one will be able to just tell you any old thing, and you will be able to see when something is wrong around you..
Loving you makes for a better life.. Try it
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